DaBaby, gotta love him?!

 

I am having a real hard time writing anything for this blog.  Writer's block and too much stuff going outside of the net.  I have no concrete and marvelous ideas for this blog right now.  I actually might (keyword: might) stop writing entries.  I really don't want to stop though.  This is a great blog, even though I don't get much readers.  I'm surprised I managed to write something in the first day of a month.  Geez... I have no idea what to write...

 

...OH!  DaBaby's homophobic comments are out of line... I'm glad he's not going to be at Lollapalooza. More like Lolololololololololololololollapalooza...  He's DaBaby, gotta love him!  Nope!  No love for him!  A foolish homophobe.

I have no idea if I'll jot anything down for another entry.  We'll see.  Thanx for reading this!

Happy National Coming Out Day!

 

Happy National Coming Out Day!  I mentioned in an earlier blog entry that I'd tell my story of coming out.  For those of you who know me, you know for a fact that I'm gay (queer as of 2026).  This is not news at all to you.  Most of you probably don't know the story of how I came out.

The story goes back to about August 2007.  I started to notice that I had a sexual attraction to the same sex.  In a way, I came out to myself at that point in time and nobody else knew until a few months later.  [REDACTED]* 

*Read the note all the way down below to find out why I redacted this and if you ever find more redacted stuff in other blog entries.

October 5th, 2008 was the day I came out to everyone.  It was an easy decision and I had no real issues without it.  However, I remember pacing around my basement thinking about it and I was a bit nervous about it.  I remember being on the phone with [REDACTED] and I was telling [REDACTED] about myself coming out.  I think I wanted advice from [REDACTED], because I know [REDACTED] came out around [REDACTED].  The first person I came out to in person was my mom.  She was watching TV in the family room.  At first, she didn't believe me at all.  She actually refused to believe I was gay for a few years, she didn't accept me being gay until around 2014 or so.  I was disappointed by her reaction.  At least nowadays, my mom accepts the fact that I'm gay.  Sometimes she thought I was bisexual or even pansexual, but I reminded her that I'm gay.  I'm most comfortable with the gay label (now queer, but gay still works).

When I was going for group therapy (I wasn't there due to my LGBTQ+ status, it was for another reason) in 2008, I came out to the group and it occurred one day in October 2008.  It felt good coming out to them and they had no problem with it at all.  For most people I came across in my life, they do not have a problem with me being gay.  There were a 2-3 people online that did have a problem with myself being queer, but I will not get into that.

I hope you all having a good National Coming Out Day!  For those struggling with coming out, you don't have to do it right away.  Take all the time you need and I'm sure things will turn out fine for you in the long run.  For me coming out was not a real difficult matter.

Update: As of late July, I'm now queer.

Note: There's a certain individual who is uncomfortable when I mention things about them and us.  So out of respect, redactions needed to be made.  If you are extremely serious about wanting to know what I edited out, please contact me on Tumblr.

SpongeBob SquarePants is not gay!

First of all, I'm queer.  In case I'm offending LBGTQIA+ people, I'm on your side!  Second of all, 2020 is a fucked up year.  OK, that's out of the way.  I'm 100% sure that SpongeBob SquarePants is not homosexual/gay.  Why?  The creator Stephen Hillenburg (R.I.P.) has stated that he is asexual.  This is basically the same stuff with Bert and Ernie being gay.  They're simply not gay.  They're puppets.  SpongeBob is a cartoon sponge.  He is not gay whatsoever.  Nickelodeon is only appeasing to the LGBTQIA+ crowd and doing it for the money.

That image above sums it up perfectly.  Yeah, Stephen Hillenburg would not approve of this at all.  SpongeBob as a gay character is not canon.  Do not treat it as canon.  If I have offended any of my fellow gay dudes, good!  I have nothing else to say about this.